Silent Sunday

A Sunday at the 'Bergs

On Sunday we had the pleasure of gathering with friends at the Helberg's home. The kids play, the parents chat, and we all hang out and always a great time. During dinner the kids were all having a blast with their 4 year old humor. So many smiles!

The Helbergs have a Weimaraner, Scout. Behind costumed people, dogs are not Tyler's favorite. He does warm up to them after awhile. When we got home Sunday night, Tyler hit the sack. Hard. In the middle of the night he awoke a bit out of sorts. Frank got up to tend to him and asked him why he woke up. Tyler's response was "Scout is running in the room." Freaky, right?

Bring on Beantown!

On Saturday we traveled to Boston to visit the Children's Museum and have dinner. Tyler and I spent some time during the week looking at the website and talking about what he was most excited to see. He really couldn't decide between the Arthur exhibit and getting to see a wheelchair.... Luckily we were able to visit those must-sees and more!
Trying out Mr. Ratburn's desk in the Arthur exhibit. Future teacher, perhaps?

The light puzzle display... the concentration on his face was amazing! He had a great time making designs and pictures.

Ah-ha! The wheelchair! Tyler tried it out, moved himself around and even tried to turn himself around--- not at all easy! He was able to grab things off a high shelf with the special tools, as well. It was quite a hard concept for someone as young as he is that some people can't run need this chair.... but he tried to understand!

On the Bobcat, working hard!

Peek-a-boo!

Frank trying out the hard hat and orange vest. What do you think, hockey coach or construction worker?

Look, it's Bob and Wendy! What do you think these two will build today?

My two guys!

Tyler had a great time working in the Barber Shop. Gave me just what I asked for, high and tight! Always have to love a barber who listens!

Trying his hand in the beauty shop, as well. Frank was a good egg and served as Ty's model for awhile. Too bad the camera conked out right then (we'll get you next time, daddy)!

Hanging like the monkey he is!

Very similar to Wonderlab in Bloomington, there was a huge climber that extended up to the third floor of the museum. He has never ventured very far up the apparatus in the past. This time was very different! After navigating through the maze, Tyler was able to make it pretty high. Do you really want to know how high up he was?

That's his little head all the way at the top! I took this shot from the first landing, not even the ground floor. Needless to say, my stomach was doing flip flops from that little height! We were so proud of his for making it all the way! While he was up there, he called down to us and said "Now how do I get down?"

After spending three hours at the museum, it was time to go. The weather in Boston was not great, so we were not able to walk around and see more of the sights with Tyler. I talked to him a lot during the week about the "Make Way For Ducklings" statues, but we were not able to make it to the park. Instead we went and had a great dinner and agreed to come back soon!

Holy Name Learn to Skate

Done. Finished. Over. After countless Sunday's in the rink, Tyler had his awards ceremony this morning for Holy Name Learn to Skate. I can not believe that my four year old hung in there for over six months of hour long practices. He is amazing.

When we started in September, Tyler was using a walker to get around on the ice. After a few weeks, he found his legs and some confidence, and lost the walker. I can only hope that his confidence continues to flourish as easily as it did during this experience!

Frank joined Tyler on the ice for their last practice together. I am sure there will be many more to come! The director introduced each group and had them demonstrate some of the skills they had been working on for the past few months. He also reminded the parents that it takes dedication to come week after week for six months. Until he said that, I did not realize we had been coming for many, many months!

A shot of Tyler completing his favorite drill-- skating with a tennis ball! I would have to think that is something I am not coordinated enough to do!

Lining up for one last race...

After practice, we all met in a warmer room at the rink. Each child (near 75) was called up by name and given a medal, a certificate, and a hockey patch. Tyler heard his name and stepped right up to collect his things. It's times like these that I realize he is not such a young guy any more!

I couldn't resist the chance to take a shot of him with his awards. We are both so proud of him and are looking forward to many more accomplishments!

Hangin' in the Alley!

For the first time in a long time, we had a free day on the weekend with nothing planned. For about 5 minutes I had the luxury of pondering what we could get done around the house, how it would feel to relax, etc, when Tyler asked "Can we go bowling?" How do I say no his cute face? I don't! We headed out Saturday afternoon to the local bowling alley where we were treated to lunar bowling in the middle of the day!
Tyler did great! So excited to get up there are roll that ball down. He hung right in the game with both Frank and I.

Waiting oh so patiently for the ball to come back so he can take another turn!

Finally the ball arrives!

Finding the right holes....

Watching and waiting for the pin count!

A photo of the overall champ! I guess all that Wii practice really does pay off!

Frank, all smiles, relaxed, despite not spending a Saturday in a rink! Welcome back, daddy!

Pizza! Pizza! Pizza!

On my way home tonight the "boys" requested pizza. Frank called it in and I picked it up. As I walked in the house I found my two favorite couch potatoes sitting together on the couch watching.... hockey! (BIG surprise!) Frank decided that it was a special night and they could take their food to the couch and watch the action....

Like father, like son!

Such a ham!

Heartbreak

Fermi played in the Connecticut Division I Ice Hockey Final Four last night against number 1 ranked Hamden High School. After a long and hard fought game, Hamden proved victorious, 4-2, over the Falcons.

The past few weeks have brought a lot of excitement and anxiety to our house. Fermi ended their regular season with a tie and a loss and got the 2 seed in their conference tournament. The boys bounced back, played hard, and won two straight games to be crowned the CCC Champs for the '08-'09 year. After that, it was on to the state tournament. As the fifth seed in the tournament they were lucky to have a familiar first round opponent, but the second round proved to be more difficult. The team handled them well, and a Final Four trip was earned.

As 24 hours have passed since the heartbreaking loss, we have been able to reminisce about the season. At the game last night, parents were asking how Frank was doing. I really couldn't answer them. Frank and I have been unable to speak over the last week or so, we are too excited and in awe of this huge opportunity. We had been looking at each other and grinning! Hard work, long hours, persistence, and great teamwork payed off for a bunch of extremely talented kids from a Northern Connecticut public school.

I can say that I do not believe there is another coach who works as hard and cares as much as Frank does. Some may say that he is a high school hockey coach, it's a part-time job, doesn't pay all the bills, blah, blah, blah. But when you have a job you love and a team you are part of, it makes it that much easier to show up every day and put your all in it. Which is why getting this close to a state championship and not making it all the way there stinks even more.

While I would like to say it is so much easier to live without all the anxiety, excitement, and superstition, it would be a lie. All of us here would welcome a few more days of that feeling. All I can say to Frank is be proud of what you have done, there are no regrets, nothing to be ashamed of, and Ty and I are both so proud of you. We had a great time watching a wonderful team this year and look forward to many more seasons. We will see you again at the "Whale's Tail"!

State Playoffs, Round Two!

The Fermi Falcon's had their second round state play-off game today..... And are off to Yale for the Final Four in Division 1 hockey Wednesday! They took on Notre Dame West Haven for the right to go play at the Yale "Whale" rink-- a.k.a. Ingalls Arena and played them extremely well, scoring 6 goals against an excellent team and holding them to 4! For a team that has worked as hard as they have, this is a tremendous payback to all the player, parents, fans, and lest we not forget, the coaches! Way to go guys!

As the coaches wife, I know what I am feeling inside during the days before the game, the ride to the game, and throughout the game. I have no idea what the parents in the stands are feeling, but it must be very similar. I am an excited mess and will leave it at that for now!

The Fermi bench, watching the game with much anticipation....

Celebrating after a fantastic goal, cementing their lead....

The Three Troublemakers watching the game from Tyler's usual post, at the railing, down in front.... (Thanks to Papa, Aunt Laurette, and Tyler's favorite cousins for coming to the game!)

FINALLY, game OVER, final score, 6 - 4!

Pandemonioum in the student section-- celebrating with their classmates still on the ice....

Skylar and Papa watching the Zamboni and waiting for our favorite head coach to leave the locker room....

Tyler and his buddy, Chris, waiting for their favorite dads in the locker room (Chris is the assisstant coach, Steve's, son and one of Tyler's favorite people!).

Happy Birthday, Grammy!

Happy birthday, Grandma! Have a wonderful day, you deserve it! We love you!

We are the Champions!

Tonight Frank's team, the Fermi Falcons, played in their conference championship game. I don't know who was more nervous, Frank or myself! The team worked hard all year to get to this point and all their hard work showed on the ice! The team they played, Glastonbury, they had played two other times this season. The first game they lost and last weekend, they played them to a 3-3 OT tie! Tyler and I traveled into Hartford to watch the game a meet Papa and Aunt Laurette who drove up from New York to take in the game and we all had a wonderful time!

Tyler anxiously awaiting the start of the game and making sure the guys were warming up and getting into game mode... He found his spot-- against the rail in the first row-- and stayed there for the whole game!

The FINAL score! It was a well played game and Fermi played their hearts out!

Starting the celebration....

The on ice aftermath-- gloves, helmets, and sticks everywhere! Tyler said "they made a big mess!"

Accepting their plaque.

Holding it up high!

The celebration picture! It was wonderful to see everyone so happy and to be there to experience it! Now it's off to the state playoffs Wednesday!

Even the news was there. Everyone wanted a piece of the coach after the game. We waited for Frank and his team to come out and as Tyler commented after it was all over, "Daddy is really happy tonight"!

Congratulations, Frank and the Fermi Falcons!

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ROARRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

March is described as the month that comes in like a lion and out like a lamb and that it did! We awoke this morning to 12 more inches of snow and a winter wonderland! The good news is that this snow fell on grass and not on top of other snow! That's right, for 24 hours we saw the lawn! Tyler and Frank had a great day playing in the yard and spending time together in the warm house. I made it to work on time thanks to a 2-hour delay and home in record time due to no traffic! Spring is around the corner, right?